European Holiday

I was fortunate enough to go to Munich and Salzburg last month. Living in Europe made me long for more time on that continent. And my wish came true when my youngest daughter invited me to spend some time with her while she was taking a whirlwind tour over her 60 days of leave.

She allowed me to choose anywhere I wanted to go. And if you’ve seen some of my other posts, you know that my bucket list of places I’ve yet to go is extensive. I toyed with the idea of going back to Italy (my favorite country) and seeing other cities I hadn’t seen. But then I really wanted to check another country off of my list.

I decided upon Munich because one, I hadn’t visited any castles and two, my daughter did a research project on The White Rose society and they were based out of Munich. That didn’t solve my “I need another European country” desire but it was close enough that we could get to Austria by rail. Mission accomplished!

So off I went. I arrived on a Sunday morning and I worried about having things to do since most of Europe closes on that day-at least shopping! I shouldn’t have worried. Madeleine wanted some street food so we wandered around the streets of Munich and ran into a festival. Turns out it was Pride and they had two stages set up with speakers, musicians and contests. It was such fun to see the main government building flying pride flags out front.

It’s Pride in Munich!

After we ate our lunch, we continued our wandering and came across a live rehearsal of the Munich symphony orchestra and a world-renowned Russian pianist. How cool is that? Apparently there were outdoor concerts all month and that particular concert was later on that evening. I stood there and told my daughter that I love Europe.

We ended our night at a Hofbrauhaus where we heard an Oompa band. It doesn’t get more traditionally Bavarian than that!

Monday we headed off to one of the main reasons for this trip-the castles! We started at Linderhof, which is the smallest of King Ludwig II’s palaces. We found it interesting that he was obsessed with Versailles.

I look so tall!

Then we made our way to Neuschwanstein Castle. This is the iconic castle that inspired Walt Disney to create Cinderella’s castle in DisneyLand. It didn’t disappoint! Again, Mad King Ludwig had his obsessions. He loved Wagner and his operas. It was prominent throughout. The sad part about both of the castles is that there are no photos allowed. Boo hoo.

I took a good photo!

Tuesday, we wandered through the city once again. Our mission was to try and see some of the White Rose important locations. We made our way to the University of Munich which was where the students dropped their pamphlets condemning Adolf Hitler and his policies. While there, we popped into the exhibit they had about the students who participated in that group. We learned a great deal and were surprised that this isn’t necessarily a hot location to visit.

No matter how hard I try to re-edit and save this image, it always turns on me.

That evening, we had a bad thing happen-I smashed my head. Who knew that switching pillows can make you bleed. But it can and it did. I say that it’s an additional souvenir I took home from Europe!

Why won’t my media files work?

So what else is there to do in Munich once you’ve conked your head? Nothing. So we headed off to Salzburg. What an adorable town! We stayed at the Goldener Hirsch hotel right in the old city center. It was a treat! The hotel had just reopened a few days before we got there. The location made it easy to walk everywhere.

I love the word “schmuck”. I know it means “jewelry” but it makes me happy nonetheless.

Walking was the word of the day in Salzburg. We walked the streets, we went into churches, we climbed towers. It seems that every day we logged at least 10 miles. But the views and the experiences were worth every step. I even booked a nighttime concert on top of Hohensalzburg Fortress. It was impressive to hear Mozart’s works in his hometown.

My media files hate me. But you shouldn’t.

So now I’ve checked off another country box and I’m back on U.S. soil. I can’t say that I’m not happy to be home but I sure do miss European living. Until next time….

Into the catacombs we go (Salzburg)

You Know You’re An Air Force Spouse When….

Originally published by NextGenMilSpouse on August 30, 2018

Some people say you become an Air Force spouse when you say, “I do.”

I don’t think that slipping on a wedding band makes you an Air Force spouse.

You Know You're An Air Force Spouse When

Sure, you become a part of the Air Force family but you aren’t fully immersed in the Air Force culture until you’ve spoken these five phrases. They are earworms that embed themselves deeply into your conscience.

When I was newly married to my airman, I swore that I wouldn’t succumb to these military terms. After all, the Air Force was his life and I had my civilian existence.

Eventually these five Air Force phrases weaseled their way into my daily vocabulary.

You too will have no choice but to surrender to the fact that you are one of us. It may take time, but you will get there.

You Know You're An Air Force Spouse When

You Know You’re An Air Force Spouse When You Find Yourself Saying These 5 Phrases

“Roger That”/ “Copy That”

This phrase is used to let the speaker know that you have understood what they said. It’s another way of telling them that the message was received. While it may be such a simple phrase, it is one that is effective in any situation.

 “Can you pick up my dry cleaning after work?”

Roger that.

“My new work number is 555-5555.”

Copy that.

You know you are an Air Force spouse when “roger that” becomes part of your regular speech.

“Standby”

This word is used to let someone know that you need a pause in the conversation.

Your airman will use it while on the phone to put someone on hold and I found myself using this more when I had kids. I would pair it with a hand gesture to accentuate the point.

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve used this at work too. Of course, the receiver has no idea what I’m saying.

I’m not using “standby” to be rude.

It has just become a verbal tic for me.

“I’d like to make an appointment,” I tell the medic on the phone. He says “standby” because someone has approached the counter.

“Visual”

This phrase is an indicator that you have seen what is being pointed out. In Air Force-speak, there is a difference between seeing a “friendly” and an “enemy.” An enemy would be “tally.”

Most Air Force spouses will only use the term “visual” although I’m not sure why. There have been times where I used it to talk about someone I really didn’t want to see (Any of my friends who are reading this, I wasn’t talking about you).

And don’t think that you’ll only use it while driving. Oh no.

You’ll use it in all facets of life.

“I’m walking toward your building. Which one is it again?”

“The second one on the left.”

“OK. I have a visual.”

“Where is our daughter? Do you have a visual?”

“Not yet. Oh, wait. There she is.”

“Charlie Foxtrot”

This was one of my favorites as well as “SNAFU.” Most people realize that this is using the NATO alphabet to identify when something has gone horribly wrong.

In other words, it’s a clusterfuck.

You use “Charlie Foxtrot” to be more PC or if there are little ears around and you don’t want them to understand what you are saying.

I’ve been married to the military for far too long and so I used to use “SNAFU,” which is an acronym for “Situation normal, all fucked up.” That phrase was easy to use around children. They could glean what it meant but didn’t realize that the acronym used words that they shouldn’t say.

“Everything went wrong at work today. The whole day was a Charlie Foxtrot.”

“I hit a SNAFU during my presentation. It went downhill from there.”

Wild Blue Yonder

You have truly become enmeshed in the military lifestyle when you have memorized the words to the Air Force song. I don’t mean that you know the tune and you can follow along with the words in your program.

No, I’m talking full up memorization.

Bonus points if you add in the extra phrases that aren’t explicitly written in.

Extra points if you include the arm motions. If you have no idea what I mean, you’ve obviously just gotten married to an airman. Otherwise you know what these are and when to add them to the song.

The transformation from “married to the Air Force” to “fully submerged” may be quick or it may slowly seep its way in. Either way, welcome to the family. We’re glad you’re here.

We need people like you and you can totally sit with us!